Feeling awkward in front of the camera? You’re not alone. Most couples aren’t professional models—and you don’t need to be to look amazing in your photos. All it takes is a little guidance and a whole lot of real connection.
Here are the most common posing slip-ups I see (and how to avoid them so your photos feel natural, relaxed, and totally you):
1. Standing Like a Statue
If your legs are locked and you feel stiff, it shows. Instead, shift your weight to one leg, bend a knee, move a little. Natural movement = natural-looking photos.
2. Only Smiling at the Camera
Smiling directly into the lens is great sometimes, but if every photo is that, it’ll feel a little flat. Some of the best shots happen when you’re looking at each other, laughing mid-conversation, or just lost in a quiet moment.
3. Awkward Hands
What do I do with my hands? The eternal question. Hint: don’t let them just hang. Hold onto your partner. Fix their collar. Run your fingers through your hair. Hands can tell a story—use them.
4. Leaving Too Much Space Between You
Unless you want to look like you’re posing for a yearbook photo, get close. Like, real close. Hands on waists, noses brushing, cheek to cheek—whatever feels natural. Intimacy looks beautiful on camera.
5. Trying to “Pose” Too Much
When you’re thinking hard about how you look, it shows in your face and body. The truth? The best images come when you let go a little. I’ll guide you gently—but being yourselves is the secret ingredient.
6. Hiding Behind Props (or Each Other)
If you’re burying your face behind flowers or leaning too far away, we might miss those sweet expressions. If you’re feeling camera-shy, no worries—there are softer ways to ease in without hiding.
7. Holding Your Breath
You’d be surprised how many people forget to breathe during photos! Deep breaths help relax your shoulders and soften your face. It’s a small shift that makes a big difference.
8. Imitating Every Pinterest Pose
It’s tempting to recreate “that one pose you saw,” but not every photo you love online will feel natural for your energy. We’ll create something that fits you, not just what’s trending.
9. Not Trusting the Process
You’ve hired a photographer for a reason—lean into it. The goal isn’t to look perfect. It’s to feel something. When you trust the process, the pressure lifts, and the magic happens in the moments between the poses.
Real talk? You don’t need to know how to pose. You just need to be present with your partner and open to a little direction. I’ll take care of the rest.